Its no secret guys like looking at boobs. So why is it that women get so upset and call you a pervert when they wear really tiny shirts that show them off?
P.S. Something else, women who have implants. They get them, and then want people to appreciate them for their minds? Ha.
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We live in a sexually repressed society where publicly showing sexual interest is essentially taboo. We have a mostly Judeo-Christian based moral underpinning in our culture, it provides the baseline of our public morality, whether you are a religious person or not. It may not seem like it the way so many people behave, but that is what's going on here.
Also, girls get power over guys by getting them sexually interested. This is probably biological in origin -- essentially guys are looking for as much sex as possible, gals are looking for the most suitable future fathers for their children. Exploring the differences between the sexes a little more, it can be said that in general, men get what they want through their strength and force of will, women get what they want through manipulation and control of sexual favors.
So what does this all mean? If you don't want to be manipulated, embarrassed and humiliated, try being discreet and polite in public. Compliment the appearance of someone you're interested in, but don't go overboard. Create a little scarcity and desire of your own. Once you are past the first stages of getting to know someone and you have permission to be intimate verbally or otherwise, then -- IN PRIVATE -- you can explore all that she has to offer without feeling guilty and embarrassing her or yourself.
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